“ Staying calm under pressure isn’t about being emotionless. It’s about being intentional. When you regulate your emotions, you create an environment where trust and collaboration can thrive.”

 

In this episode, I talk about the ability to regulate your emotions, which is a life skill that can make or break your effectiveness as a leader. I share the real story of a woman leader I worked with who needed to learn this skill, and did. Lastly, I provide 3 strategies to help you start regulating your emotions.

 

In this episode:

  • What emotional regulation is and what it’s not
  • The story of a leader who struggled to stay calm under pressure
  • How this leader managed to transform her approach
  • Strategy 1: Name the emotion
  • Strategy 2: Pause before responding
  • Strategy 3: Reframing the situation
  • Your action for this week
  • And more!

Leadership Presence | Mastering the Inner Work of Leadership is your guide to leading with less ego and more soul. Your host is Janet Ioli, leadership and human development expert, sought-after coach, advisor to global executives, and former executive with experience in four Fortune 200 companies. In this podcast, she digs into the real deep work and empowers leaders to show up with authenticity, build emotional intelligence, and lead in a way that leaves a lasting impact.

 

Noteworthy Quotes from This Episode

“ As we know, leadership roles are filled with pressure, tight deadlines, unexpected challenges, high stakes decisions, and how you manage your emotions in those moments directly affects your team, your credibility, and your ability to fulfill your responsibilities as a leader.”

“Emotional regulation is not only a skill you need as a leader, but it’s a skill you need as a human […] Learning how to stay grounded and manage our emotions is a critical skill that we all need to master.”

“ This simple act [of pausing] gives you time to choose a more thoughtful response, because now you’ve created a space, and in that space is your ability to choose how you want to react rather than just emote.”

“Remember, leadership isn’t about avoiding pressure, it’s about rising above it.”

 

Resource Links: 

Connect with Janet Ioli:

Website: janetioli.com

Linkedin: Janet Ioli

Instagram: @janetioli

Janet is the founder of Power Presence Academy. She helps leaders ground themselves with confidence, connection, and purpose and lead with Less Ego, More Soul.

If you want to become more grounded, confident, and aligned with your deeper values in just 21 days. Check out Janet Ioli’s book Less Ego, More Soul: A Modern Reinvention Guide for Women.

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